I haven’t
met a competitor yet that wasn’t motivated and excited when they started their IAS
preparation. However, with 70% quitting within just two attempts, it’s obvious
that motivation alone is not enough. The problem with motivation is that it
fluctuates on a daily basis. One day you are energized and motivated and the
next day you’re zapped – losing your motivation altogether.
Attitude works better than motivation
If you are
relying on motivation alone to pull you into action or to get you to your
objective, chances are that you’ll give up on your goal during a period of low
motivation. The real secret to success in UPSC exam is to adopt a strategy that
removes motivation (not attitude) from the equation as much as possible. After
all your attitude is the thing that determines your career altitude. This
starts with making a grounded decision on your IAS success goal. Being properly
informed on the pros and cons of your decision as well as viable alternatives
will help you make a decision based on reason and logic rather than a temporary
emotional high.
[Expert
Tips- Attitude is mandatory while motivation is optional]
Grounded Decision boost your
self-discipline
Making a
grounded decision makes the task of self-discipline a little easier. Not even
world class professional athletes get out of bed every morning eager to train
and condition. Like everyone else, sometimes they are motivated and sometimes
they are not. What sets them apart from most people is that they have made the
decision to do what they need to do even when they don't feel like doing it.
Why should you expect yourself to be any different?
So today,
make the decision to do the right thing in the right manner for your future –
be it health, relationships, or your career. Review your goals and make the
decision to do what you need to do on a daily basis even when you don't feel
like doing it.
[Expert
Tips- Don’t make rushed decision about IAS]
Follow your strengths first, desire
second
In general, people often make the mistake as they choose their career
mainly on their education and experience. Unfortunately,
they ignore the most important asset they have for achieving success: their own
strengths. Unless you know your strengths and use them, you risk getting into
occupations that do not suit you—or performing well below your potential in
whatever endeavor you choose.
Career
seekers are not conscious to discover their strengths and weaknesses. They
choose their career emotionally without calculating of what areas they are good
at. This snap decision view eventually ruins their career and loving future
life too.
[Expert
Tips- Consciously choose your career that matches your strengths.]
Coach strengthens your strengths and weakens your weaknesses
Find a coach/mentor to help you stay on track – someone that has
already achieved the success that you aspire to. Having a
coach (or a few—there’s no rule that says you can have only one) is one of the
smartest things you can do to advance your career. A coach is someone who specializes in providing
support that gets you to take consistence effective action towards your desired
outcome. Coaches are all about implementation. Having a positive and efficient
coach/mentor can be an inspiration because they give you a glimpse of what is
possible.
[Expert Tips- A student without good coach is like a vehicle without
head lights]
Make your goal public
Next, make
yourself accountable to someone else that you trust to have your best interest
at heart. Accountability can get us over those low motivation humps by not
allowing us to ignore the reality of our actions or lack thereof and to remind
us of the reason we set our goals to begin with. Remember that as you take
action toward your goal, doubt and fear start to be replaced by confidence.
This cycle of †action – learning – results – learning‡ when repeated will
develop a personal momentum that will over time charge your motivational
battery from within.
[Expert Tips- Create clear, vivid,
exciting, emotional pictures of your goals as if they were already a reality.]
Live the
life you truly deserve!
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